Parenting Post-Wilderness: Parenting a Struggling Teen Before, During and After Treatment

128. Parenting an Overwhelmed Teen (And Dealing With Your Own Overwhelm as a Parent)

Beth Hillman | Parent Coach for Parents of Struggling Teens | & Seth Gottlieb Episode 128

When life feels like too much, it’s easy to get caught in the spiral of overwhelm. And let’s face it, whether it’s your teen or yourself as a parent, overwhelm is something we all face from time to time. In this episode, we dive into how to support your teen through these challenging moments while also learning to manage your own as a parent.

Overwhelm can show up in many ways, emotional shutdowns, conflict, exhaustion, or frustration, all stemming from the pressure of unmet expectations. Whether it’s you as a parent or it’s your teen who’s feeling overwhelmed, the same strategies can help: setting clear boundaries, validating emotions, and releasing the pressure to meet everyone’s expectations.

Overwhelm doesn’t have to define your family dynamics. In this episode, Seth and I share our personal experiences with managing overwhelm and expectations and how these moments impact our relationships. We also explore the strategies that can help both you and your teen find balance and connection when overwhelm starts to creep in.

In this episode on parenting an overwhelmed teen, we discuss:

  • What overwhelm can look like in your teen’s behavior;
  • How to help your teen navigate the pressure of expectations;
  • The role of emotional congruence in strengthening your connection;
  • Why validation is key to supporting an overwhelmed teen;
  • The importance of setting boundaries before overwhelm takes over;
  • How vulnerability can foster understanding and growth in your relationship;
  • And more!

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