Parenting Post-Wilderness: Parenting a Struggling Teen Before, During and After Treatment
Your guide to parenting a struggling teen or young-adult, whether they’re home, transitioning home, or presently in treatment.
Parents, say goodbye to exhausting confusion, overwhelm, panic and the unhelpful patterns that keep you and your family stuck. Learn how to develop healthy responses and set healthy boundaries with your teen instead of acting out of fear and anxiety.
Experience the relationship-changing power of focusing on your own behavior instead of futile attempts to control your teen.
Your guides to Parenting Post-wilderness are Beth Hillman, a life coach for parents of struggling teens and mom to a post-wilderness teen, and part-time co-host Seth Gottlieb, a wilderness therapy guide turned teen and young-adult recovery coach. Their unique combination of experience and training yields candid conversations chock full of practical, actionable tips and tools to smooth the challenges both parents and teens experience surrounding treatment.
Every week, you can expect conversations around:
- Parenting a struggling teen or young-adult;
- Setting healthy boundaries with your teen;
- Treatment options for your struggling teen or young adult;
- Bringing your kid home from treatment;
- Parenting skills to support your struggling child;
- Teen substance abuse, drug addiction, gaming addiction, suicidal ideation, or other teen mental health concerns;
- How to end power struggles and instead foster healthy communication with your teen or young-adult;
- And much more.
Listen in to discover how parents like you have learned to influence equanimity in the home and rebuild connections with the teens they love.
Connect with Beth on Instagram (@bethhillmancoaching) or find more information about working with Beth at www.bethhillmancoaching.com.
Parenting Post-Wilderness: Parenting a Struggling Teen Before, During and After Treatment
144. Parenting Without Enabling: How to Support Without Condoning Harmful Behavior
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When your kid makes harmful or self-destructive choices, it's natural to want to step in, correct, and fix. But at some point, empathy might feel like enabling. How do we listen with compassion without sending the message that their behavior is okay?
In this episode, Seth and I unpack the fear that being supportive might mean condoning poor behavior. We look at the complexity of parenting teens and young adults who are making hard choices, like skipping school or selling drugs, and explore how to respond without judgment while still holding firm boundaries.
We talk about what it means to truly witness a struggling teen without rescuing, and how empathy, when done right, can be one of the most powerful tools for encouraging change.
This conversation is for parents who are walking the fine line between love and limits, and wondering how to stay connected without giving up their own values. If it’s ever felt impossible to be both supportive and firm, I hope this episode will help bring clarity.
In this episode on parenting without enabling, we explore:
- Why empathy doesn’t equal approval, and how to hold space without condoning;
- What supportive parenting really looks like during a crisis;
- How to stay grounded when your teen says they want help… and then backs out;
- The difference between rescuing and respecting your teen’s process;
- Practical ideas for setting boundaries without emotional reactivity;
- What to do when natural consequences are out of your control;
- Why ignoring a behavior can actually feel more like condoning it;
- And more on parenting without enabling!
Looking for support?
🗺️Need help setting healthy boundaries with your teen AND following through? My free guide will help you do so by creating your own Parent Home Plan!
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And remember parents, the change begins with us.
🔆 Small GROUP COACHING program starting June 11th, 2025 🔆
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