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151. Advocate for Your Child at School: 10 Tips for a Successful IEP Meeting With Andrea Svendsen

Beth Hillman | Parent Coach for Parents of Struggling Teens & Andrea Svendsen Episode 151

There’s no handbook on how to advocate for your child at school, especially when things get hard.

Navigating IEP meetings can feel overwhelming, intimidating, and downright confusing. You know your child needs support, but between the legal jargon, emotional stress, and resistance from schools, it’s hard to know how to show up as a strong advocate for your child, no matter their age.

That’s why I invited Andrea Svendsen to join me for this conversation. Andrea has decades of experience in both public education and advocacy, and she brings an incredible combination of insider knowledge and heart. In this episode, she shares 10 practical tips to help you show up confidently at your child’s next IEP meeting, even if you’re feeling totally unprepared.

We talk about what your rights actually are, how to organize and present your concerns, and how to stay kind and collaborative while still standing firm in your values.

I know you’ll walk away feeling more equipped, less alone, and ready to advocate for your child in a way that builds trust and gets results.

In this episode on how to advocate for your child at school, we discuss:

  • Why your role as a parent is just as important as anyone else at the IEP table;
  • What to do before the meeting to feel prepared (and what to bring);
  • How to write an effective “parental concern statement”;
  • The difference between working with an advocate vs. a lawyer;
  • Why kindness is a powerful advocacy tool;
  • How to stay grounded during emotional meetings;
  • How to involve your teen or young adult in their own support plan;
  • What to do after the meeting to ensure your child’s needs are truly being met;
  • And more!

You can connect with Andrea on her website, send her an email at Andrea@svendsenllc.com, or send a text or call her at 6309155776.


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